Sad and bitter story, sometimes it's not a waste of time, sometimes it's a matter of facing reality, of learning to listen, of not blinding ourselves. Generally, when someone tells us something, we have to value it, that is, put that comment to the test. It's not about doubting the other person, but about making sure that it's really what we believe and not just a fantasy in our minds, a stereotype, or an ideal. Despite everything, the breakup was timely because otherwise you would probably have been the victim of deception, betrayal, and, due to your attitude during those three years and two months—submissive, passive, and indifferent—just another woman who prefers to be accompanied by fear of not finding someone to accompany you for the rest of your life.