You see so many people calling themselves open-minded and this is good but sometimes it makes us because it makes us feel flexible modern and wise and acceptable but here is something that people don't talk about enough something being open-minded which becomes an excuse to avoid making that with choices that can change our life.
Think about it. It's easy to say I'm exploring and I'm trying to keep my ocean open. I'm trying to make good feeling with everybody and accept everybody the way they are but the difference between exploring and hiding is that when you explore it takes curiosity and when we hide things or should i say hiding things takes fear
When we are scared to pick a direction or we are still hesitating to take the action or tell ourselves that like just be with the neighbor and consider it, we want to avoid getting stuck and avoid being wrong or have a feeling and not to offend anyone.
But as we continue to do this do this, you continue to float in life which we have to wait for that life to magically that perfect moment to act or to seize opportunity and then when things go south we begin to complain about not being that lucky.
The truth is that luck often shows up after we have developed the courage to commit not before so opportunities appear when we actually walk down that path not when we stand staring at others doing and waiting for our perfect time or things to be handed up to us.
People will look lucky usually made that choice long before good things start happening. They were willing to pick something that they were good as they stood for something they were willing to fight for, something and even if it didn't work at least they tried it takes courage to thrive so they are willing to take this responsibility.
When we say we are open-minded, it's not a bad thing but it's great to be open-minded by listening by exploring and learning and understanding what it means to be open-minded. When you're open-minded that does not mean that you should allow anything to enter or allow anything to go or should all sit down and relax without taking an action.
At some point you have to choose you dream your direction your belief and even to do what scares you something that matters enough and that is what fighting for you would always get things right and that is guaranteed but we live in a life where it will it rewards every movement no hesitation there is a reward for movement and not a reward for education.
We need the courage and this story is not just about being fearless but it's about acting when the fear is still there and not minding it. If you have been keeping your options open for so long maybe now is time to ask yourself you should be open-minded or are you just afraid to commit your future depends on the difference.
