We have tried to fix someone maybe it was a friend, a partner who struggled with communicating clearly, or just a colleague who couldn't see you how you view life. Try to put your heart, try to become someone, a better version of yourself, but it's you only end up being frustrated, being drained of your own values. So this might be a trap that you need to get yourself out.
You think or you believe you can change others for good, then you must be joking. You do this, never try to change someone; it might backfire you. Instead, leave them and change yourself. So let me tell you where the magic happen. It happens when you focus small on improving yourself and transform yourself to a better person so that you can attract the right people you need in your life.
Think about it: when you're trying to move someone into a better person, you are fighting the battle that you might not win at last. People only change when they are willing and where they want to change, not you advising or forcing them.
Instead, you might find yourself just taking away your peace just to adopt a habit that you could not fight for. So it's like trying to align your life to some, forcing your life to someone when he or she is not ready, and the energy is not being reciprocated.
You try to fix all this by building a stronger life on your own and be happier alone. So what is the alternative now is focus on becoming the best. It starts more, pick one good year of your life and try to improve in this. Maybe it's like practicing gratitude always or learning to listen or anything to learn to prove yourself or protect your peace.
The change sometimes might not make you feel good, but they begin to reflect your reflect to the outside world, and people that love your personality will bring to get attracted to you. The vibe will flow without you forcing it.
It's like upgrading your lifestyle you take away kills from your other starts drawing people that align to your style or your lifestyle. The intention I was new: someone who was surrounded with circle of toxic friends.
She would want to advise her to or try to put them on short, but all advice fairly to deaf ears. So one day, she just decided to focus my and say everything book hitting the gym, practicing and self-improving our financial rules.
And those doing what is right, along the line, new friends start to come, friends who share the same values started showing up. So she didn't have to change for those people. Instead, she changed herself and met the right people along the line.
What is the lesson here? That you cannot control what others think or do, no matter how hard you try. But you can go to yourself, who will be concerned that you can attract who you love to attract close to you. You will work on those goods, and the world around you will shift to your own personification and personalization. Be delighted. The right ones will find you at the right place that you build yourself to.
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