MARRIAGE BEYOND AGE DIFFERENCES
Hello lovely people it's another beautiful day and an opportunity to learn...unlearn and relearn.
While age differences between spouses is believed to affect marital satisfaction and the couple's ability to withstand challenges, suggestions has it that an age gap of 1 year to 3 years of age could be considered ideal.
But right here and now, I will likely put it out that age is both a number and at the same time, not a number to be worried about.
I mean age is a number because talking about maturity, it's a sum total of product from the quality of our life experiences, convictions and decisions made through self leadership.
You can possibly find a 22 years old man who has taken charge and full responsibility of his life, you can term it a young mind in the big body, at the same time, you could as well find a 45 years boy who has ignorantly refuse to take responsibility for his actions and deeds.
With this formation, I can say that age can be just a number in the sense that there are other qualities to be looking out for in an individual you're attracted to and wishes getting married to, I mean you could possibly think about spiritual growth, physical attractions and the quality of family relationships.
However, on the other aspects, age can also be considered as not just a number because we all have biological clocks. A 38 years old woman and a 24 years old boy aren't the same, whether you looks like it or not, either you admit it with me or no, one person is much closer to her prime than the other at least physiologically.
But before proceeding further in choosing your life partner or even dreaming about starting that relationship, kindly consider this big question here and sincerely answer them accordingly.
will you being a man of 24 years of age be able to understand this fact? That when you're 30 years she'll possibly be 44 years.
Secondly, it has been said and believed that women mature faster than men and I find this difficult to argue against.
Hope you both are on the same mental wavelength? Because many times a 20 years old boy and a 20 years old girl wants too different things out of life and finally, I would wanna ask, if submission will be an issues comparing the age differences?
Considering the age gap ,is it something you're comfortable with? As a woman, considering you're older than your man in age, will you.trust him to lead despite the fact that you've had more earthly experiences?
These and more are questions that you both must answer sincerely before you proceed.
I have seen this worked before if both partners are willing and ready.
But always remember that you can lie to someone sometimes, some people sometimes but not to everyone all the times. From the stand point of truth, I wouldn't advice you to lie to yourself about anything in life.
Mine is to wish you both a beautiful journey and a peaceful home and yours is to ensure you give in all necessary requirements, exception of your dear life to keep the family united, peaceful, productive and successful.
Your handsome friend @johnpetra
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