Hi, my friend,
I have never played Jenga. To be honest, although he had seen it on some entertainment show when he was addicted to TV. Today you taught me his name and tactics.
I think it's good that you got crushed in the fighting. You are very lucky to be defeated by a special adversary. In that sense, you have already won the war. I am convinced that it is a very bad idea that you defeat your wife. So make an effort and enjoy the defeats inside. If it's natural, better! Who knows what rewards you get for comforting your wounded ego.
Against other opponents, things change ...
Haha, yes you're probably right, getting beaten by my wife isn't too bad and it's all about the fun anyway. In truth I don't really mind at all. Life isn't always about winning. I like your idea on gettin comforted for losing...It could be well worth losing a few games I'd say! ✅