Happy Birthday. Outside of that I don't know exactly what else to say, I could go in so many different directions with what you wrote and still be unsure if, in the long run, it helps or hinders. What that says is there will be many unknowns, obstacles, and hardships but it will be the in between(s) that will make it worth overcoming them all.
At least, the journey has been interesting thus far.
Not really sure who all is involved in the scam but a comment belong it may not be legit according to this article:
https://hive.blog/phishing/@hivewatchers/phishing-warning-no-critical-wallet-update-no-airdrop-no-giveaway
Yeah, that's an ongoing thing. People got phished.