Hey! it's okay to make mistakes sometimes at least we learn from that and we don't want to repeat those unthinking decision. But somehow I agree what response you made but feels like 'I'm doing the right thing but why its on me, blaming?!". Don't overuse your power about it, it made you overthink too much. Yea you follow the norms but we can't guarantee all of the other obstacle or issue so what you gonna do 1st is rethink twice or thrice then balance it as your obligation and as representator. Hope you not thinking too much. AJA! Life's goes on.