Hi @zanoz and thanks for sharing you thoughts about long distance relationships. However, OCD is not the right community for this type of topics, as it meant for topics that don't fit anywhere.
This post would fit in Ladies of Hive community for example.
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Okay! The topic wasn't biased to just one gender as in ladies as such I don't think it's a right fit for the community mentioned.
All the same, thank you!