My wife feels bad that she doesn't really get any sugary treats, but I don't mind her choosing a slice of pear over a bun, lingonberries over marshmallows.
I certainly wouldn't. That's preference for the healthier option built in. A lack of desire for something that you enjoy but is bad for you is a blessing. How can anyone object such a thing?
I think it is especially apparent around events, like birthdays and holidays. So much of the tradition is tied to certain kinds of food that there is the sense of missing out on the tradition, if not eating the treat.
Well, that's definitely true, if you cannot eat what's on offer. I thought about the idea of not preferring to eat the treat.
Yeah, she doesn't mind that part - but @momone is quite into the Finnish traditions like this.
I see.