Someone once asked me what I’d do if I ever became single again 👌
Honestly, by God’s grace, I don’t see that happening — but if I could talk to my younger self, here’s what I’d say:
💎 Don’t rush into marriage just because others around you are doing it. Move at your own pace. 👌
💎 Before anything, take time to heal — not just move on. Make sure no past heartbreak or childhood pain follows you into your next home.
💎 Learn yourself deeply — your likes, limits, and the things you simply can’t live with.
💎 Pray with clear understanding, not emotions. Marriage needs direction, not just feelings.
💎 Build your finances. This part is very crucial — so you don’t stay in any relationship just because of financial support.
💎 Learn to communicate better, say sorry when needed, and walk away when peace is gone.
💎 Always choose peace over pressure, and values over temporary vibes.
Marriage isn’t about who marries first — it’s about being prepared and fulfilled when you do.
If you’re still single, don’t waste that time. Use it wisely — grow, love yourself, and become better. ❤️
Yes, Agree with you no need to rush specially the marriage thingy hehe it's really not a joke, though we're two years on marriage but we haven't discovered each others yet. I mean the true color, the character, and many more to discover on marriage. Hoping for a long lasting relationship too just like yours?. God Bless!