71 tabs open, my PC would faint lol.
2 or at a rare max 3 tabs open is all that I can manage at any one time and my life is run the same way. Yeah, at times some auto tabs pop up but I handle each on its merits.
Death is one of those tabs and acceptance is another tab. Then there's the guilt tab, a time tab and a healing tab. The best tab is the memory tab.
Life is like a PC,as when you turn it on in the morning you never know what to expect.
Good news or bad news, angry stuff, disappointing stuff, or happy stuff, we never know what the morrow holds, but we don't have to accept all that life throws at us.
That's why I leave most of the tabs off. Yes, I might lose some opportunities, but serenity is more important and peace is the optimum.
My laptop would too, but this an old but decent desktop.
Acceptance is a tab people should bookmark and autoload at the start of every situation. I think that learning to accept what something is allows it to be approached from a position of peace, which allows a more sensitive change.
Well, I couldn't have said it any better, but yes, it is a fact that can help so many.
Acceptance leads to rationality!
They talk about the stages of grief, acceptance should come first.
A thing that I learned early in my life my friend.
My biggest hurt was when my gran died when I was 13 yeas old.
I had accepted the fact that I didn't have a father and was forced to accept many things in my early life, but her death was my biggest test. She was the only one that ever showed me real caring love and it was a great loss.
But afterwards and even now I see how it helped me to overcome.
I am the one that was selected every time that anyone died, to go and own the bodies in the mortuary. Not an easy task, but acceptance of the finality helped me to cope.
Perhaps losing ones that we love and love us the most is not only the greatest test, but also what helps us to become loving with others. A lesson in lead by example perhaps.
I can't even imagine.
Life has a way to work out if only we would learn to let it be.
But we tinker too much and only burn our fingers my friend.
My gran has thankfully settled the foundation for my kindness.
There are worse ways to come to it.