If a classy girl sacrifice her pride to marry a guy who lives in a slum with a very meager income, the guy shouldn't be happy he married a virtuous woman.
Putting down one's pride to accept shame comes with dire consequences. The guy should be at his best to give a lift to his life quickly.
A woman may be desperate to marry, but not when she's already in the house. Everything itches a woman who is distressed by discomforts.
Many marriages are breaking because of hardship. The people benefitting from these breaks are rich dudes who are eating these ladies on 'per-second' billing.
If you are not yet certain about your income as a guy, even if the lady is telling you that you guys will manage and she'd be patient with you, don't rush at such convenience.
Be wise. It takes wisdom to understand and manage women. Don't sign such pact with a woman, especially if you are broke. Na you go see weeeen when she will prod you over your low life.
Young men, work on your finances before going into marriage. Married life is extremely more expensive than marriage ceremony.
Be wise. Don't fall for cheap offers. Even if she says she will sponsor the wedding. A reasonable guy shouldn't allow a lady to sponsor his wedding, isn't it?
There's something about a man having money. A woman cannot divorce that from her perception of man. A man must be responsible.
Thank you.
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