There are certain traits that immediately turn me off. I don't like people who talk too much especially those who speak without thinking or feel the need to dominate every conversation. Silence and restraint reveal more strength than endless chatter, I also keep my distance from people who are insecure and try to pull others down just to feel better about themselves. That kind of energy poisons everything it touches. And then there are those who love to argue and refuse to agree, even when reason stares them in the face, I don't have patience for that. Life's too short for unnecessary debates.
My standards for friendship are high, and I make no apologies for it. I believe that true friends should reflect the kind of values you live by. To me anyone who wants to be called my friend must tick off a few non-negotiable boxes, First, they must have a solid sense of right and wrong. I don't need perfection, but I need a conscience. Second, they shouldn't follow the crowd just to fit in individuality matters to me, Third, they must have understanding-someone who can read the room feel your tone, and know when to listen instead of talk. Fourth, they must pass the vibe check, I don't
force connections; if our energy doesn't align, it's a no. And finally, they must have honor and loyalty -stronger than that of family. Because at the end of the day, loyalty isn't in bloodlines; it's in choices
That's why I barely keep friends. But the few I have, I value deeply. My circle may be small, but it's genuine. Friendship isn't about numbers or popularity, it's about depth, trust, and mutual respect, I'd rather have one real friend who truly understands me than ten who only know my name.
So no, I don't let fate choose my friends. I choose them with intention. and when I do. I make sure they're the kind of people who can stand beside me through silence, storms, and success alike.
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Hahaha 🤣😂 lol that she doesn't like people who talk much 😒. However, is a nice one, everyone has a choice.
Because I talk a lot so the equation needs to be balance😂
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