Hello guys, welcome to this wonderful day and week, happy new month to.you all and happy independence day to Nigerians. I am very happy and excited to be here today because this is a new day and a new month, and I am going to be talking about one of the topics that was given to us in hive Ghana community for this week. And this topic is all about Maturity. Does maturity comes with age? Have you ever seen any person that is older than you but not as matured as you? I am going to be telling you guys my part of the story so stay tuned.
You see, life itself contributes to how someone can be matured, even children now adays act more matured that some adults, age contributes to maturity but it is not the main element or the main thing that brings about Maturity. Maturity also involves emotions, when you ahave this emotional intelligence, and you are emotionally grown, maturity begins, it also has to do with self awareness. When you are always self aware of what is going on with you or within the environment you are, you are always self conscious and you have that ability to stay calm and focus, when you talk less but reason more, that's maturity. Another thing that shows how mature you are is also when you can show correct empathy.
What I mean by empathy is when you can recognize others feelings and perspective, making it easier for you to bond with that person, they are all traits of maturity. Age brings experience sometimes and it is also a trait of maturity, so maturity takes time to develop. I had this friend of mine when we were in secondary school, we were in the same class, but he was older than me with about 2 years, despite the fact that he was older than me, he wasn't as matured as me.
He would talk anyhow in class, he would say things without reasoning and sometimes even get into trouble with students and teachers. He wasn't matured enough to feel empathy so he didn't know the right way to talk to people, and it also got him to trouble most time. He wasn't also self aware of his environment, sometimes teacher will be in the class and he will not be aware, he will just continue playing until the teacher tells him to go to his seat, I wouldn't say he was premature, I would just say that maybe he lacked some type of home training.
I also believe that home training can also help you grow in maturity, what do you think about that? Thanks for stopping by, I hope you enjoyed my entry for this topic and I would love to see yours, I would also love to know your answer of wether home training adds to how mature you can be, so drop it in the comment section. Bye, and enjoy this new month with happiness in your hearts 🥰.