My entry on the ongoing weekly contest on week 123 /friendship

in HiveGhana23 days ago

Good day all .

I trust we all had a great day today. From my end here in Nigeria the day already has come to its end and I'm grateful for how it went🙏.

We wait to have some night rest against tomorrow's hustle, you know life is full of hustle, you have to put to work in order to keep living.

I'm glad as I have this opportunity again today to participate on the ongoing weekly contest.

Today I will like to talk about friendship. But before I proceed, I must tell you guys the truth, I mean all those in @hiveghana community who has been behind all these weekly contest, you guys are doing amazing 😍 Jobs, honestly you are trying alot , bringing up topics like these isn't that easy and actually it's really beneficial as it's making us to think 💬 and reason more good , as well as to learn from other people's life's experiences.

Weldon guys 😊.

friendship

It's true that some people do say that they had no friends, but they truth is that it's not possible to live without having anyone you likes his or her way or even someone you will like to imitate their way of life , just like many have their favorite celebrities, those they follow and always watch and engage with their posts. If you are doing a thing like this, just know that you have friends.

Coming to those who keeps friends, I'm an example, I have a lot of friends, but I also have limits with each kind of friends I keep, I can role with any kind of person but theirs always a limit to that .

So when it comes to people that I choose to be very close to me or people that I love to go close to everytime, here is where I become specific,

I go close to those who are in the same queue with me , those who behaves responsibly, who knows the value of life , those who likes to hustle because I always needs motivation, a kind of person that can easily offer a helping hand when I needs one , although unfortunately to me I have friends who is close to me because I do spend for them , I mean they haven't helped me in any financial issue that I have experienced ,

but many times I have assisted them when they are facing life's challenges, most times I do tell my self that I will cut them off , however it hasn't been that easy because of what I can't really say , but I know with time I will keep them very far from my life because they aren't bringing any value to my life 🧬😢.

Friends should be always supportive, I am a good example of people who are ready💯 to render assistance at any given time, be it money, be it time , be it encouraging words, be it anything, unless at the moment you needed my money that I couldn't give you because I didn't have, thats the only reason that can make me not to help , if you are close to me as my friend or brother, you can testify to what I'm saying.

So for same reason, I choose friends who will be willing to give to me atleast half of what I can give to them , friends who are ready to share valuable information when they get any, informations that can help you grow in life .

conclusion

Even when I get these set of friends that are favorites , I still never have the thinking that they will always be there for me , I do believe that at a time, if at all their can be disappointments ,and because I have such thinking, it won't affect me much when such happen and still it won't spoil our relationship as friends.

my take .

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Being ready to lend a helping hand to those in need is a good character and it might not be reciprocal in some cases but it is still worth it.

Sure .
You are right 👍