Some criteria for my decision in choosing friends.

in HiveGhana9 days ago

What does the word friend mean? What do we usually mean by it? First of all, we have to understand that a friend is a person who will always be by our side in our troubles and in our happy times without any reason. I know that nowadays there are very few people who understand the meaning of friendship. By friend we mean people who will be by our side. If we ever do something wrong, my friend will lead me to good deeds. Those who lead me to bad deeds can never be my friends. Friendship is where there is no interest except spiritual sacrifice.

We humans grow up from childhood, our family nurtures us. It teaches us to be good people. But when we grow up a little, we become teenagers or young adults, many friends around us affect our lives a lot. Because since childhood we have grown up in a family, we keep in our minds what our family members teach us. When we grow up slowly, we are influenced by the people around us and the people in the society. One of these is friends.

Of course, there are some things that we need to keep in mind when choosing our friendships, which I think are very important for everyone. I never choose my friendships based on my luck, in this case, I will keep many criteria in mind. One of them is how my mentality is with my friend's mentality. First of all, my mentality should be as good as my friend's mentality. Suddenly, no one can become my friend. I will definitely check him, see how he behaves. How he behaves, how he grew up, how much I have in common with him. I will definitely keep an eye on these things. I will be careful that there is no distance between our friendships in the future. I will see if there is any issue that may cause us any problems later.

I have several friends, I have used the same criteria in their case. I have seen them in such a way that they live in my area, they are from very good families. Their behavior is very good. They always instruct me to do good deeds and forbid me from doing bad deeds. It is actually a matter of great luck to have such friends. In our society, I currently see that there are many bad friends who usually do various kinds of addictions. They do not study very well. I do not interact with them at all. So I think there should be criteria in choosing friends, this will make my future better. I will be able to move forward in my life well. Maybe good friends will influence my life and I will move towards success day by day. Thank you all for reading my post.

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Yess they always want the best for you and wouldn't watch you fumble, those criteria serves as a leading guide which is there to balance you while making friends. Nice write-up

Thank you so much.