Personally, 2025 has been a great year for me. But with good experiences come bad experiences also. As much as I’ve had so many things to be thankful for, there’s are a number of things I wish didn’t happen but did. And what did I do? I made sure to learn from these experiences, apply them in my daily life and also grow to be a better individual. Someone of the experiences are those that actually shape us and I make sure to embrace all these experiences no matter how bad it may look.
If there’s one huge lesson I’ve learnt this year, it’s to know that not everyone is who they portray themselves to you and also to know your place in people’s lives. This year, I’ve had so many bad experiences with very close friends which had me rethinking my life. I got to find out that some people I considered to be very good friends were only with me for the benefits and nothing else and when they stopped getting what they want, they switch up.
I had someone I’ve been close to for so many years tell me I only did this and that for them and I’m like is that so? The switch up sent me into a shock but I guess that’s life. Then there’s those people that try their best to you yet you don’t even bat an eye at them. This year, I came to realize that there were so many good people in my life who I wasn’t paying much attention to. Eventually, I had to sit down and fish all the bad ones out and move on.
If there’s one lesson I’ve learnt from this, it is that it’s never too late to start all over again and you need to know place in peoples lives. Have a clean heart, put in your best but don’t over do. This I hard to learn the hard way.
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True. Sometimes we realize we’ve been giving the wrong people our attention and those who really have been there for us are the ones we ignore.
Its truly never too late to start all over again. I'm glad that this year has been a great one for you.