I love rendering assistance whatever way I can. Sometime ago, I had this friend who struggled financially in school. Whenever we talked, and she complained about how hard life was, I felt bad for her. This girl is very intelligent, she’s fluent in English, and most of all, I knew her as someone who was hardworking. I’ve known her for years, and I believed she was going to be an asset to hive if I brought her in.
I explained the basics of hive to her, and emphasized on the fact that it’s not a get-rich-quick scheme. I did so, she told me she was interested, as long as she would earn from it. I was even surprised when she told me later the same day, that she had created her hive account. Seeing that she was so pumped to join hive, I taught her how to go about her introductory post, delegated hive power to her account, and congratulated her on taking her first step to blogging.
She did her intro post and began writing. She entered my dm to ask me questions every now and then. Questions I happily answered. There was a time she didn’t write for about two weeks, so I checked up on her, and she told me she didn’t know what to write. I sent her some prompts, she said she didn’t know how to answer them. I then advised her to go read responses on those prompts in their communities, to get insights. She agreed and we ended it there.
She still wrote nothing even after that, so I left her. After all, according to my dad, ‘one only does what is important to him or her’. Writing probably wasn’t her priority at the moment, so why I should I force her? Some weeks later, she began complaining about money issues to me when we saw, I asked her why she left hive, and she said ‘You know I’m not patient enough for that kind of money’. The moment I heard it, I ended everything concerning hive, and we talked about other things.
People claim they need something, and when a door is opened for them to access that thing, walking through the door becomes the problem. You don’t have the patience to invest your time in writing and earning, but you can whine about being broke most of the time? Continue with the delusion, we’ll see if it will be of use one day.
I love helping out my friends whatever way I can, but as much as hive is for everyone, it’s also not for everybody. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with onboarding people, and I know that many people tend to miss the part that hive might not pay out initially. The idea of simply writing, and earning for free is appealing to many, but when they find out that they need to actually put in the work, they lose interest.
Thanks for reading.
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You can't force anyone to join HIVE and you can't force them to stay either, no matter how broke someone is what comes first on HIVE is passion not income, you have done your best for her.
I thought so. If she had no passion for hive in the first place, then there’s no need for her to be here in the first place.
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Thank you very much
Since she wasn't patient enough to be on Hive to enjoy the goodies that abound here, then Hive is not for her.
It's a pity she lost something good. 🤣
!BBH
This is what I thought. Hive isn’t only about the money, and since she was too blind to see that, she can find her path. Thank you.
Hive is really no different than most things in life — what comes out of it depends on what is put into it. With Hive, time must be invested, the same as starting a new business, or learning how to sew or cook... we must stay with it for success. Great job trying to onboard and help someone, though. Maybe the next person you bring will stay with it! Thanks for joining us at PYPT today! 🙂
Maybe your friend prefers free money without having to work hard to earn it, and that's a shame. I hope she changes her ways and can prosper in life. In the meantime, I applaud your willingness to help others. Good for you!
Thank you very much. I really hope she gets to realize that there’s no shortcut to success, and the need for effort. May we all prosper in our different endeavors. Have a blissful weekend💕