Hello everyone, I hope you are doing very well today.
There is always contention when it comes to the issue of who to marry, especially from the women. Every woman wants to marry a rich man, a man that will be able to take care of her. No woman wants to end up with a man who will not be able to cater for the family.
And for the men, they would always ask what a woman is doing at the table. Every man would always want a woman who would also bring one thing or the other. So you will actually hear people (men and women) sit back and talk about this issue for a very long time without having to understand the fact that marriage is something you walk into yourself and not try to measure for yourself the kind of spouse you want to have.
I really believe that people attract people, so you will have to marry your type. There's no need to stay and talk about something you cannot control because even if you tell yourself the kind of person you want to end up with, you will have to also be a person that person would want to end up with.
Marriage is for companionship that will help you to fulfil your purpose, so that is why it is very important you work on yourself so as to marry well.Marriage is not to end loneliness because there are people who marry and still feel lonely because they did not find purpose, so they toil daily wishing they did not have to go into the marriage just because they did not know the reason for marriage. They talk about marriage just to suit themselves and not about what marriage ought to be, forgetting that marriage involves two parties from different places, so it can't be viewed from one perspective.
I think people should stop talking about the kind of spouse they want and start working on themselves to be the man or the woman they ought to be.
Let everyone walk in themselves, their character, and their lives, and naturally they will just attract great people that they will be able to spend the rest of their lives with.
People should not sit for hours and just discuss the other person, but they should get up and make sure that if the next person finds them, he or she will be glad to stay. Let's not just look for what we want for who we are supposed to be; if everyone does these, then marriage will not be hard or something that should be taken so unseriously. We should not think about our wedding alone but our marriages.
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You’ve said rightly! Everyone wants to marry a rich partner but when that rich partner comes, do they have what it takes to make them stay? I think that’s why there are so many broken homes these days because many people forget to look for the inner attributes, that makes up their partners. They’re most of the times obsessing over the outer aspects of their partners which causes that perfect marriage to break when they realize they were never compatible in the first place.
Yes, everyone wants to marry because of their selfish gain