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Now am admiring my great-grandmother and the ones before time, where they'll just bring husband for you to marry, and the man in question will just say few words to the bride’s father like “ I see a beautiful flower in your compound, that I've come to pluck” after throwing lines like this, the next thing is marriage. In as much as you're a good man from a good family and you got a skill or trade like being a hunter or farmer or even trader.
Those wondering why i didn't mention grandmother calm down, there was a reason for that..lol
Well, I just realized that my grandmother's time wasn't as naive or easy going as my great-grandmother's time was.
..The similarity of young men coming over to pluck beautiful flowers from the backyard was still reigning i think, however this time around it seems love comes first before marriage.
Then you'll see the man throwing stones to the tree or the roof of the house just to alert his lover of his presence, she'll come out all blushing, from there the man will thrive to be successful and come to marry her..simple.
So unfortunate that I wasn't in this generation mentioned above, I would have been a “Mrs' ' now and maybe would have birthed my lovely babies and been attending co-wives and women meetings in one village like that😪
Just kidding o..lol. I love my generation and would have cried if i missed a generation full of cruise as mine😅.
It is our time, that “Love now has a language” if only our great-grandmas knew..lol
Well, that's the proof of being in the present.
Love is a universal language which is practiced in all parts of the world. But when we come to Nigeria, where most ladies love language is “Money”.
Hmm..poor mindset right? Right,I know.
But I also love money too o..lol and I equally find it important as well. In my case however, I prefer being with an hustler than a man who already has it all. The reason being that most “Well to do Man” already cultivated that mindset of every lady having a price tag which i see as nonsense, and so I'll prefer growing with a guy in as much as he's a serious minded person who equally has the taste of being
better.
Coming down to my love language,
Yes, I got one too you know😏..lol
“Attention”
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Something to know about me, Am clingy. I would never get bored of your company as much as feel you enjoy mine too.
When talking about “Attention” it reflects the aspect of communication and understanding down to the depth of it all.
Love isn't an easy ride, I don't know the name of the feelings every human catch at first sight and that last for 3-6 months but that certainly isn't “Love”
So I feel that humans call the present “Attention” in relation to proper communication and understanding.
I believe with that on the line, even in the absence of that short-term feeling you'll still find your partner attractive.
That concludes it all, so if we're in a talking stage and you refuse giving me attention, forget it, am not doing again😗
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I love this generation oh. I don't envy the previous generation at all 😅.
Attention is a very important love language. I'm someone who's also big on attention. You can't claim to love someone and not give that person attention or crave the person's attention.
Who would want to miss out on the cruise of these generation😅😅
By the way, I know you now 😏
Thanks for your comments😊❤
I know right? The cruise in this generation is second to none😅.
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Heheh, I think they're leading the chart when it comes to love In our generation...
Attention and Money
Anyone that has these two and is of good character will definitely land any girl she wants
Wonderful🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Wait o
Do you know it’s not too late to be a Mrs
Ohhh it’s easy koraa😂😂
My sef I Need my nephews so look sharp
@abenad oo😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂
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You know the oldies also have their own love language right? Just that it wasn’t framed in this way and it was so demanding like this generation’s.
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Money and attention can't be separated when we talk about love. They both work hand in hand. Anyone with the two features will have a healthy relationship
Exactly✅✅
Thanks ma'am for stopping by❤
The pleasure is mine
How to get Tory's heart: Attention
Very well Noted 😂
Drey leave me alone o🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
does this mean you will fall for me if i give you attention always?
Lol .. I need to like you first you know right😏
Haha..
I guess I still have a long way to go in oher to accomplish that.
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Attention is also a love language which falls under the category of quality time haha.
Good post.
I popped in from Dreemport because I am an awesome #dreemerforlife
Thank you big sis ❤
Attention and money, both are love languages for many of us in this generation, though which one of them comes first will certainly differ from one person to another.
#dreemerforlife
Very true💯
Hahaha, is either you give Tory attention or she is not doing again 🤣🤣🤣
This babe is just funny..lol
Those days with our grandparents eeh, I really see that kind of marriage as weird. I don't want to imagine marrying any man without feelings for the man..how did they even do it.. nawaoo oo 😂
Yea, sweet love language you have got
Ladies needs attention..pamparing , money...so many languages, lol
#dreemerforlife
Hahaha😅😅😅.. The only sister that understands me in the whole of hive.
Either attention or nothing😗
An true true, money is very much important in relationship.
You have just nailed it! Attention is one of the strongest love languages, attention births communication, which is also an integral aspect of love. Thanks for this post!
#dreemerforlife