We hear so often about love in our lives. We feel it. In relation to our relatives, friends and other kind of close people. It's not just a feeling, but a power that may attract people to each other even more. Some may get crazy loving others. Just like anything else, it shouldn't be overwhelmed. Because besides it, there are so many other things we should care about.
Sometimes love may even turn to hate. It's all depending on the relationship. Especially when we start getting more and more experience about people. We may understand that we loved the wrong people. The love may stay forever, but the relation should change even if we don't hate. In this case, we understand that the person we loved was just over valuated by us.
In other situations, it's even hard to love. After being disappointed for so many times, the brain build a protection. And we may start to check the loyalty of people, again and again. Every action may be suspicious, and we may be even paranoid. That's not good, of course, but that may protect us from those who don't deserve our love. But in the end, we just find someone, give them the chances and see what's next !
You may understand what I'm talking about if you read the post of @johnjgeddes.
The part I liked from the post is this one :
Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness.
As you see, the love is not that easy to talk about, especially for those who kept falling in the trap of betrayal.
I keep telling people, love is not that tingly sensation u feel when you are very much happy with some one or a partner. Love is beyond that.
Love practically is the pain you shoulder when everything goes out of hope. Love is the feeling you get when u tell some one good bye, love Is what you feel when you make sacrifices, love is a commitment not a temporary feeling. Love is indeed hard. But it's something we do every day and time without even knowing. How we chose to love is a reflection of your soul.
Movies have made us think love is a tale of romeo and Juliet.. No its more than that, love is complex and requires alot to let out.
Remember we sin every day, But God chooses to love his people not withstanding, that's a hard thing to do by mortal men. Now u understand why love is indeed hard.
-Very nice thoughts Sir! And yes betrayal happens to some or is sometimes mistakenly seen as betrayal though it's not. It's a case-to-case basis..hehe for me betrayal will never happen with 2 people who truly love each other or has mutual feelings and are meant for each other. And to some, they feel betrayed when they failed to get the love that they want to have, without thinking that the other person also loving someone truly in his/her heart! So only the 2 hearts that are meant to be is going to have the best love because God destined them to be together.
Have a blessed evening!🙏
#dreemer
That's very well noticed. If they truly love each other, they will never betray each other.
Thanks for the thoughtful comment !
You can just judge like that, you see this is call love can be betrayed any day any time.because love is seeing in different way, individual have his or her way of love beside if someone build love on a lie it wl definitely end up wt lies and betrayal.so life it self is love if you don't love your life than how wil extend love to other. And sorry to this days generation we love because of money and when there is no money 💸 the love will begin to fade and when it fade what else betrayed wil cheap in.
Love is hard, as a matter of the fact, very very hard and to some extent confusing!.
What do I mean, some people finds it difficult to differentiate what or how they feel for other people.
We confuse love with a lot of things like lust, infactuation, obsession and what have you.
Some people are very unfortunate to love the wrong person, and this can bring about betrayal and disappointments.
Love is really a beautiful experience, if you get to share it with the right person.
This topic is really broad and attracting, good job @clixmoney
Interesting perspective. I have gone through so many ordeals in the name of love and that made me give up on love until I met my girlfriend. Love is a beautiful thing, unfortunately some times we fall for the wrong people.
Love is not hard my friend, it's an understatement you have given. Love is the hardest! It changes you, the way you feel and react, mostly for good, but sometimes not so good. People lose their individuality, they start living for others, how others want and like.
People start accepting things they would never like or do, and they have no choice, such is love.
Love is a pure feeling, a great one to have. But what makes it the hardest of all is that it's something you can't live without.