For what its worth, you made valid points.
I also dislike ladies dumping their financial responsibility on a man. Personally, I feel it causes such ladies to be valueless and the day the man gets fed up, he would dump her like a pack of cards. Some ladies mindset is scary. What their father could not do for them,try want someone else's son to do it for them 😁😁😁
I also dislike a partner who never apologizes. An apology should stem from knowing that someone is wrong and the person genuinely wants to make amends. Not forced apology.
Another red flag you forgot to add is not having boundaries. I believe that when two people are in an intimate relationship, then they become exclusive to each other. The guy should not condone any form of intimate affection from an opposite sex and so should the lady too. Intimate stuff should be exclusive to not partners alone.
Let me give instances for clarity...
He or she should not allow the opposite gender sit on their laps.
He or she should not go on candle light dinner with the opposite gender. Even if they claim it is just casual.
He or she should retain from excessive hugs, pecks and touching from the opposite sex. Etc
Omo!
I was heading to this last point of yours but I decided to stop because I felt I was saying too much already especially with the fact on how most people (especially people on this blockchain) don't like coming out bold to say things. 😂
I was heading this keeping of opposite sex as bestie without boundaries. I mean, no boundaries at all. I can't condone such.
I have female friends that I'm close to and I do tell them and if I'm their boyfriend, I go jealous die on how close we are 😂😂
Thank God ooo. Kingsley and I finally agreed on something 😁