Let me begin like, this growing seem like a hard thing, but in reality grow is all about waiting patiently for maturity and change. As we grow we are face with many challenges.
However the people, things we outgrow are those who were once important to our lives not because they are bad, but as we grow or change or mature it just that we no longer vibes with them like we use to before.
I remember how I outgrow an old version of myself, pleasing people then I realized that no matter how much you please them you are till not enough for them.
Good friends are the best thing you can ever have, there is this good friends of mine we share ideas, share plans and even the future that we have not seen together, going everywhere with them thinking you had it all.
Not knowing the are just using me because anything the said we should do I do, I was so scared of loosing them.
Growing up as teenage girls was the best experience then I ever had.
As time pass, our values, mindset, lifestyle no longer match anymore the think the are above you. Trying to discourage your dreams and drain your energy.. while for some life paths move in different directions because the have to change location.
My desire for peace have make me outgrow the person I used to be, I no longer please people to be happy, self awareness taught me more not to be in the cage of toxic relationship but to free from that cage like a bird...
The guilt of outgrowing someone you till care about may not be easy and the emotional pains of letting go,may seem very hard but seeing the beauty of becoming your own true self is all that matters to me so I achieve that!
And today I live happily not for people but for myself...
Growing is amazing
Sure and we do that everyday..
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STOPPersonal growth is so important in life and the people you associate with play a big role in your life . It’s so good that you are prioritizing yourself over others I wish you all the best as you have begin the journey of self growth.
Thank you For your word of encouragement.
I will grow big really big thanks again