Hello my lovely people, welcome back to my blog, I still remain your girl @graceze so sit back and enjoy the reading for today's prompt which says should things be private or transparent in relationships? Some of us who aren't in a relationship would be sharing from the perspective of what we would be looking forward or check listing in the criteria of the kind of relationship which we aspire.
Transparency and privacy is certainly what I would go for, transparency in the relationship itself and privacy to the world. You know what those celebrities do that they showcase their relationship and marriage online for their own personal reasons, I honestly don't envy that pattern at all I would prefer privacy with what ever goes on with us, not more like we are hiding it from the world but we are not certainly not exposing ourselves to unknown or unwanted dangers, we might show important things or ceremonies online but not certainly our every day lives on the screen.
And for transparency, I always give that in relationships not mostly with the opposite sex but with people i trust so I expect that to be given in return, well I might go with this Logo 'treat me the way you want me to treat you' I might be giving that energy but if asked I really want transparency because I believe that's what relationships are prior for, I would not be offering obsession or a stucking person because I know that's what people think transparency leads to but I think that is where trust is built on.
So if this prompt is asking about the relationship itself I would generously pick transparency, it is only a person who has skeletons in his or her cupboard that would want to be hiding alot in the name of privacy and I strongly feel that it is this privacy issue that had leads to breakups and divorces in marriage plus relationship, when you don't trust what the other person is doing but because you guys are in a privacy mode there's nothing you can do, that is what leads to false accusations and all, so I would want it plain and clear right from the beginning so that we wouldn't have issues later, more like making what we want very clear in those stages we call talking stage.
For starters I watched my parents build in love and transparency, like they both knew what the other person was doing and they could vouch for each other so I take my case study from them, So permit me to say I choose authenticity over boundaries, don't get me wrong boundaries are good but not when it comes with a compromise of secrecy instead of trust building in love, how do you guys do it because I honestly can't deal, well that is just my thought what is yours?
At this junction I beg to take my leave, take you all for giving me the opportunity to be a wonderful host to you all, much love from this side.
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STOPWow, very interesting entry, I think transparency is needed too. Thanks for sharing