Hello and welcome to this week prompt with a very intriguing topic "Double Dating"
Double dating might be right and it might be wrong depending on the situation that surrounds it.
I used to double date and I didn't see any big deal in it but I later met someone who changed that in me.
And to say the fact double dating is not that easy because you have to divide your time and there's no way you can satisfy two people at the same time and equally.
At times it also depends on your girlfriend or boyfriend .If I have a girlfriend and I realise she doesn't cherish me I'll get another person because relationship is not a do or die affair. If you cherish your heart then you'll not want someone to break it so if I see a red light in my relationship then I'll quit and I might not tell the person immediately that I'm no more interested because at times it not easy to say it but action will definitely speak louder than voice.
So its good in a way and its not good but once you find a soulmate that you are "compatible" with and you "love" each other I don't see any reason why you have to double date.
Doble dating is a crucial issue its has to do with alot of sacrifice and commitment! I mean people who double date try and get a grip please its not just right! beside wat would u tell ur children about your past? or would encourage the same thing to your younger ones?
but, I will encourage us to try and be contented with what we have, we are the future of tomorrow lets try and settle down and let us not go for everything under the skirt lol 😂.
Let me conclude this with my story, So there's this girl that I dated who was actually double dating and I know and i was okay with it not until something happened. It started the first year I got admission to school she was my senior in same department, so initially Theatre 🎭 Arts have what we call induction it's a kind of initiating the newly admitted students I to the department and letting them know the rules and regulations guiding the department at large. So on the day of my induction we had a performance which I was one among the leading role, after the induction we've now officially become full members of the department. A day after the performance on my induction night I notice a chocolate slim tall girl trying to mimick me which I don't know how she get to know, then s sudden thought came and I remember she was trying to mimick me from the performance, I started to ask if she's from my department and she said yes but I would not believe because that actually my first time seeing her even having a conversation. I was doubting because I use to see her friend In the department but I don't use to see her so I was thinking maybe her friend gist her about the performance that's why she's using it against me. That apart that was how our conversation became smooth as though we know each for long, little by little we both catch feelings for each other and then I was scared because I have heard about her boyfriend he had this he had that, so I keep it to myself. But unfortunately she open up but told me she's having a boyfriend if I could still cope dating her like that then I said yes and that's how I started dating her and only her as of then. It was challenging though seeing your partner double dating but I have no choice because she already gave me terms and conditions. I suddenly get use to her and act asive I don't know she's double dating until when they had issues that lead to them breaking up, boom that was when she started misbehaving. I think dating the guy was a perfect idea for her and me because we didn't have much issues then though. Lastly she found out about me double dating with my current partner then that's where she picked offence that lead to breakup between me and she, she had forgotten that I also was with her when she was double dating so you see that how my story is.
Double dating could be okay if you feel your partner is not the right person for you but if your partner is good you two can build something great in that relationship without double dating. I will stop here I hope you understand the concept double dating and choose your part wisely thanks 🙏
People should be able to take it "tit for tat", since she wanted you to be Okey with her double dating she shouldn't have get broken when she found out you're double dating as well.
In a nutshell, double dating shouldn't be encouraged, there's always a victim after all..
Thank you for sharing this with us @landlord7
Sir i was confused with how she wanted me.maybe because I was broke,or is it greed?
Sure, great insight, double dating is not something that should be appreciated if u know ur focus because alot come with it,I like the fact that u Change from that habit.
Thanks I also thank God for the transformation
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I like your insights about the decision to double date if your partner is not giving you the vibes but I still feel it's better to stay clear of the relationship and end it than pretending and hurting each other
Yes that's the fact. Thanks for word of encouragement
Double Dating is a very critical social affair, especially among the young people, which has a lot of implications on them. We must not scatter our energy into different places.
Both energy and resources sir thank you for word of encouragement