Hi @apata45 welcome to Hive. I'm @palomap3 from Lovesniper OCD team.
It can't have been easy being the only brother, but the upside is that you'll know how to treat girls better, hehe. I always admire engineers who also write, kudos for that! I see you've got some help with @samolaj @marrying and @ainajane so follow their advice and you'll be successful.
Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.
Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
Have a good day!