In the current situation, almost every person is marrying each other. First of all, I want to keep you away from the topic of marriage, basically, our society has created a situation whose situation and results are very terrible. Especially in the current situation, a person is forming a relationship, but there is a possibility of creating a lot of problems in it.
When a couple forms a new relationship, almost everyone tries to hide the matter. Because if the people around them know about the relationship, then the matter looks very bad. Especially when people know about the relationship, there is a possibility of shame, fear and panic. Sometimes, many people, due to knowing the matter, will feel a lot of shame when their relatives and friends find out about the matter and there is a matter of honor and respect. So many couples try to hide their own relationships and try to maintain their secrecy.
Basically, the relationships of people who try to keep their relationships secret are very beautiful and sweet. Because there is a lot of love and affection hidden in them. As a result, first of all, they have the ability to express their desires and feelings, but they continue them in secret. So that their relationship never cracks and never breaks.
But I have seen some exceptional people in the society. Who are extra family devotees. May be they are mothers or sisters or friends or relatives.
If they ever get involved in a relationship, they cannot hide their emotions. Maybe they tell their relationship to a close relative or tell their friends. There are also families where girls in all families are taught a hard lesson. They constantly share their real life experiences with their families.
I myself am a victim and have proven myself, when I loved my wife and asked her to keep our relationship a secret. But my wife never kept my word or could not keep our relationship a secret. Because she was very emotional and she told her family about our relationship.
At one point when your family came to know, I was forced to get married. Because every person has self-respect. And when I fell in love with her and we got involved in a deep relationship, the matter became known among the family and relatives. At one point, there was no other alternative but this. As a result, of course, I got married to my beloved wife and while we were in a relationship.
However, I think that the most beautiful thing in a relationship is secrecy. Since I still consider these relationships comfortable and I am never declaring them valid from the perspective of Islam. Because it is a forbidden relationship. So in that case, I think it is better to maintain secrecy in the relationship. If secrecy is maintained in the relationship, the relationship remains beautiful and healthy for a long time. So I think that maintaining secrecy in every relationship is definitely a very important thing.
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