Apparently there's nothing new under the sun bruh is just an upgraded version of what has been In existence or what has happened before.
The best thing anyone can do for himself is expect little from people, either family members or outsiders.
Someone like me before I ask you for any support be you my friend or brother. I will make sure I'm convinced within myself and if I am asking, is not with the intention of getting it but with the mindset I either get it or not. And I am not bothered with the outcome.
Concerning promise, I have never taken anyone promise to heart. Because of what I have been through before. There's something that happened in the church I worship here in Abuja. A man of God came to minister and he promised every choir member 10k and we are all happy. Do you know as the church closes I forgotten that someone promised us something like that. Life continues and that is not in my mind and I'm not putting that in my budget. Fast forward to like 4-5 days later, they just texted me to send my account for the money, I was expecting anything to happened either the money reach my hand or the church might decide to use it for another thing different. So I was so focused on how to get my money not promised money 😹🤣
It's well sha but don't expect much from anybody.