Hello everyone it your girl pemruach,am so excited to be a part of hivereachout community and to make these wonderful post on these explanatory topic.
Before i should give my opinion on these topic,i would love to explain the keyword behind it which are;
(1)Private🔒
(2)Transparent🔍
(3)Relationship👭👨👨👦💑
Because sharing my opinion without defining and telling us what the key words means is like planting a good seed in a wrong soil,it won't grow,it won't produce the required result.So let begin these journey of growth as we plant these good seed of knowledge in the right background of understanding....
So what a private or privacy??
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Private means something personal,secret or hidden,so when something is private it also means that it is personal,it cannot be shared or disclosed to anyone or to a third party.
Secondly what is Transparent ???
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According to science,transparent is anything that allows light pass through but for the sake of our topic we will not be using these definition👆.But rather definitely e it as public or exposed,when someone or something is transparent it means that it is open,public,exposed and also visible.
Lastly what is relationship???
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Relationship is actually broader than what people think it is,so many people have reduce or abate relationship to only those in Romantic relationship like boyfriend and girlfriend,fiance and fiancee,whereas that part of the type of relationship.There are different type of relationship that exists between individuals,and some relationship are mutual while some are parasitic,but in a simple terms relationship is a connection between two or more person,that is aimed at benefiting from each other either negative or positive.
So i believe that the keywords have been carefully digested.
As we all know and from my definition that in a relationship there is something,ideas,information,issues or bond that exists between them that make them remain in the relationship the find there self. So we want to know if those things should be kept in private or transparent??
I will say boldly without any iota of doubt that not all things should be kept private,because there are minor and less important things that occur in a relationship that is meant for the consumption of the public,which can also help educationally and morally.All things should not be private and all things should not be transparent for people to see and hear.
The disadvantages of making something that is supposed to be Private,transparent can lead to a dangerous disagreement,which could also lead to the destruction of the relationship.....what am saying in essence is that you should keep personal things private,and the things that do not matter transparent,to enhance the smooth running of the relationship that exists between two person or organization .
There are advantages and disadvantages that is behind picking any of the listed options,which could lead to damage,but when equation of keeping something's private and something's transparent is balanced,it reduces conflict and other factors.
Hope i did not confuse but convince you about these matter especially for the young couples.
See y'all some other time,love you all.
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Having read your opinion about the last week's theme, if we can hide stuffs to sustain relationships, how long can the truth be hidden before it gets disclosed? Building relationships on basis of lies is difficult to maintain because you'll continue to lie to sustain the relationship and when the truth comes out, it eventually shatters the relationship. Maybe it can workout but for me it's really hard to maintain..
Thank you for sharing @pemruach
It depends actually,thanks @ovey10 for sharing your own view it clarifies many things to me.