Hello everyone, hope you are doing very well and that your day is going very too.
For this week, we are told told to write about a popular statement we do not agree to and as such I have a lot of statements I do not agree too. But I will be talking about one of them that affects everyone and this state has mar a lot of people.
There is this statement that goes "love is blind" and sometimes people would add the love is blind deaf and dumb. 😃😃 I really wonder why people would say that and even believe that.
Love is something you do as a responsibility without having to to look back. A lot of people have neglected the place of intelligence when it comes to relationship and marriage because if this statement, like are you for real? Why would you end up with someone that has a bad character and still say that it is love, why would you even end with someone that beats you because he said he loves you and because you just feel it so you end up with him.
Why would you end up with someone that stings you with actions and words that make you feel low? Why would you even end up with someone that feels he or she is doing you a favour by marrying you? Love should not make you sad even when it corrects you or scolds you. You are supposed to be happy that someone loves and cares for you, not to feel indebted because of what that person says to you.
Love is not blind; it is a responsibility you have to do for a particular person. It is not a feeling; it is more than what you feel and more than what you think. Make sure that you are loved by the person that says he or she loves you and not just that the person says it. Seek to know about a person that tells you that he or she loves you, and check if there is any form of responsibility he or she is doing to make sure you grow.
I mean, if you are loved, you will know it more than the gifts people get for you or what they want to do for you. Make sure that you realize the kind of love you are getting.
You need to look at someone's character, what he or she can offer, etc., before you love, so that you will not end up loving the wrong person.
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Love is blind is a thing of past, there is one Novel I read , the name is "Love is not enough" it is always good to checkmate somany quality before ending up with any partner, marriage is not a bed of roses.
Yes oo
One of my pastors use to say "If love is blind, then marriage will open the eyes for you"😂
For me it's stupidity for someone to claim he loves you, yet maltreats you like a slave and you're still in that relationship or marriage and you call it "love". It doesn't make sense
Exactly my point, women should know better. Thank God there's no marriage in heaven.
Love is blind but marriage will open your eye. I wonder why some people will see all the negative signs in a relationship and will continue. Anyone that can maltreat or abuse a person now might do worse later if cares is not taken. You can be in a toxic relationship or marriage and still call it love. No oh!!!
Hmmm
There are things you need to do without being told
Love is blind ke!?
When your two eyes were opened when you chose that person cause he/she is stubborn and temds to be jealous. Oh, pulizzz😅
Love is not blind oo
I think that phrase or sentence 'Love is blind' is just trying to tell us that you or your partner can go to any extent just to please you or him. But it does not warrant that you be maltreated because your partner says he loves you or she loves you because that is no longer love at all
Love entails mutual respect, loyalty, transparency and the willingness to do things for your partner even if you they did not ask
Very true