I remember when I used to hold stupidly long grudges. I stopped at some point, got better things to do xD Maybe some people can't move on because the brain tries to work the situation out but is blocked/prevented by cognitive dissonance.
I remember when I used to hold stupidly long grudges. I stopped at some point, got better things to do xD Maybe some people can't move on because the brain tries to work the situation out but is blocked/prevented by cognitive dissonance.
Not sure what the mechanics of it are. I just knew I couldn't live like that. Perhaps I am lucky to have been fucked over so many times at just the right rate so that I could maintain some faith in humanity. 😆