Many people want to change their lives; however, they still keep a heap of excuses. It is our habit to allow these excuses to mislead and confuse us and assume that our excuses lead us to our dreams and goals. We get so caught up in our excuses that we end up avoiding even trying. We make excuses so that we don’t make changes in our lives, and we give ourselves the excuse to believe that the problem is our situation and not our action.
Life is a choice. At any given time, we can always choose a way out of it. You have to get out of the life you have now before you can get the life you want. Changing your life isn't the problem. If you find the problem, you will fix it. But if you find the solution, you'll have it. If you find neither, that's when you have a real problem. The simple truth is that changing your life isn't a problem of situation, but a problem of action and choice.
Time is an infinite thing that's been given to everyone by the Creator. So, why are we not able to make the most of what we have in order to be able to achieve our dreams? This is a killer question. No one can give us more time than we already have. When we think about it, we probably have more time than we think, we have work all our lives and get almost nothing done because we weren't focused on the important things in life. Now that we are old, and we have this much time watching the time go by because we think we don't have anything more to do with it. Maybe we could spend it doing the things we could do when we were younger. We could take the training, take the courses, learn the skills-no time is late.
The second thing is that time is not your problem, you already have so much time; the real problem is the way you think about it. You waste most of your time just thinking about how much time you don't have, and that is how time is stolen from you. The real time to think is right now. Right now you have time to stop and think. Right now you have the power to think about what you want to do and how to do it.
The reason we are not able to do what we want is because we let our imagination control us, and not our actions. Many people waste their lives worrying about what they don't have, rather than thinking about what they do have. The idea behind creating the life of your dreams is that you should focus on what you already have. To do that you have to permit yourself to make changes, and this is possible. All you need to do is master the way of action and allow it to carry you to your goal. If you do these two things, you will be able to see changes in your life. You will be able to see where you can live a more meaningful life, that is fulfilling and useful to your family and community.
The illusion of no time is only a misplaced focus. You don't need more hours in the day; you need to focus on the time you have and put it toward meaningful action. Stop letting your imagination control you with worry about what you lack. Instead embrace the changes and do what is necessary to be done, you will see how your life will become more rewarding and beneficial to your family.