Writing this post by 10: 04pm. Have you ever taking time to reflect on your life experiences, focusing on growth and and letting yourself learn valuable lessons? Growth allows us to pause and absorb the wisdom we've gained. Ever thought about making an impact and adding value to others ? Let talk about this today, shall we?
I think I'm at a stage right now where I've got this feeling and I'm feeling emotional about growing up not just in age, but in character. I want to be someone who does the right thing at the right time, add value to others, and empowers them. I've seen a lot of things that I wish I could share, especially in the fashion world. I'd love to educate upcoming fashion designers because if you follow a good path that others have paved, they'll want to know how you got there.
Lately, I've been reflecting on my feeling? and asking myself questions about how I'm doing. I'm trying to rise above and think about how to be seen as a leader who helps others build themselves up, cares for them and shows them the way to succeed. But then I wonder, am I getting ahead of myself? I've not started in a way that would make others look up to me as a role model or guide.
I know they say experience is the best teacher, but not true for everyone. Some people learn from their experiences while others don't learn and keep repeating the same mistake. That's a decision they made for themselves, often because they don't take the time to reflect after the experience.
I wanted to let my thoughts flow while writing so I took my time and I'm still writing at 12: 19am. I've gone through many experiences and they've taught me valuable lessons. Recently, I took a moment to reflect on my life experiences both good and bad and realized I need to learn from them to avoid repeating patterns. I've come to understand that If I want to grow, I need to start acting like the person I aspire to be. I've identified areas where I need to improve to become a better version of myself for myself and those around me.
I've noticed myself sometimes doing the wrong thing at the right time, struggling to calm down and think clearly. As a woman, I often don't take things seriously and trend to procrastinate. I'm always rushing, but I'm not sure what I'm rushing towards. Despite this, I want to improve and a positive impact on others. However, I realize I need to focus on my own growth first. I'm asking myself, how can I become a woman who knows what she wants, sets plans and inspires others? I've taken a moment to pause and reflect on these things and I'm determined to make a change.
I've reached a stage where nothing seems hurt me anymore. I was telling my sister that I don't know why I don't feel that emotions anymore. It's like I've become numb to everything and I'm okay with whatever happens. I don't know why I was feeling that way, but I know I'm overcoming the past by letting go and focusing on the future.
If I want to add value to others, l need to start with myself. If I want to grow and make an impact, I need to focus on my own development. If I want people to see me as a role model and mentor, I need to set a good example and act like the person I aspire to be. By doing so, others will recognize the value in me and be drawn to my guidance. I'd love to empower others through meaningful conversations and mentorship.
I'm done writing and ready to post at 1:00 am. Being a leadership isn't easy, but with discipline and small steps, it's achievable. I'm starting small, disciplining myself and following this path because I want to make positive impact on others. I aim to help people, encourage them and guide them on their spiritual journey with Christ, as I believe that faith is essential for true success and with every step forward, I'll strive to uplift others and shine a light in their path, reflecting the love I've received.
Experience may be the best teacher but we don't have to wait to have the experience ourselves. We can learn from the experience of others, whether they talk about it or write about it. It saves us years of fruitless labour.
I love the direction your thoughts are flowing, towards self-improvement. That's the way to go for someone who wants to make something good of their lives. Learning from your mistakes is the best part of it. Also add to that, learning by reading. Read voraciously, good books. You will pick an idea or two that can change your life. I wish you the best on your journey to becoming better.
Thank you so much for your words. I appreciate. 😊
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