Life is short, and in the short life we try to enjoy as much as we can and create some beautiful moments. So when we start to grow up, we keep making friends from time to time. Friends are those with whom we can share our feelings and secrets because we have the belief that secrets will be kept secret.
But in life, only friends are not enough because we need someone who will always be by our side to support us. We need someone whom we can trust and believe more than friends. Many of us prefer to call them soulmates or life partners. We have the hope that our soulmates will always be with us till death, although it's not applicable in every case.
The bonding between soulmates is magical, and for social acceptance of the relationship, a wedding or marriage occurs. In my country, a wedding is a matter of grand celebration. People don't hesitate to spend a lot of money on a wedding. Arranged marriage is very common in my culture, but in recent days, love marriage is also coming, but compared to arranged marriage, it's very little. I know that in many countries, couples stay in a living relationship before marriage, which is totally illegal in my country, and from my country's perspective, it's a good thing; otherwise, there is no doubt that many people would try to take advantage of it.
The success rate of arranged marriages in my country is very high. The reason for success can be many things, but in my opinion, the understanding between couples is the most important reason behind the success. So for those people who think that only for love marriages is the success rate high, that is not right. In fact, I have also seen cases where, in love marriage, people are not happy because many people choose the wrong life partner driven by emotions, and after a certain time, they realize it. So I think the understanding between a married couple is the thing that can determine whether a married couple is happy or unhappy. So, which has nothing to do with arranged marriage or love marriage.
If anyone is unhappy or unsatisfied with their married life, speration is the best option because staying in that kind of relationship can give them a burden and feeling, which is not so good for anyone unless they have the mentality to fix the relationship with a positive mindset. So the system of divorce also exists. Although it's not so frequently happening in my country, that doesn't mean it's not happening. In fact, those kinds of cases are increasing little by little with time, which is a matter of concern. It has been noticed that most of the divorce cases involve highly educated and qualified couples. Maybe it's because in that situation, both of them are capable of bearing their own expenses, and both of them are not ready to lose their dignity ego which can be the possible reason behind the high rate. Instead of it, in my country, very few people go for separation.
Let's talk about who wants to remain single in life. I think each individual has the right to make their own decision, and if anyone wants to remain single, then it's their choice. In my 25 years of life, I have seen only one person who had such kind of mentality. Unfortunately, that person faces criticism almost all the time. Maybe it happens because that kind of thing is very rare in my culture.
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Ot's interesting to read that arranged marriages last even longer than love marriages in your country, probably because they already prepared their minds for whatever they face ahead, compared to those lovebirds who seek perfection in marriage, hence divorce when they don't see what they expect.
I don't think happiness doesn't depends on arranged marriage or love marriage. Love marriage will be more successful if people doesn't rush for love just for following trends which is happening frequently. I think having the mentality to understand each other is the most important thing in married life.
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Same in my country, arrange marriages rate are higher than love marriages. It's difficult to predict which marriage will be more successful. Compromise is necessary to make your love/arrange marriages successful.
That's the reason the success rate of happy married life does not depends on it was a arranged marriage or love marriage. If couples has the mentality to understand each other and respect each other they will be happy naturally and love will come automatically.
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Really? Arranged marriage in today's world? Culture is indeed different
This was what happened decades ago in my country.. nowadays, no one wants arranged marriage but love, dating ... and then to marriage
And to know that arranged marriage in ur country appears to be more successful in surprising
Well, the best is for people to stick with what works well for them
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In recent time many people fall in love and get married but it happens because of manual approach which should be natural approach. This is the reason love marriage success rate is not so high here. Many people get married without realizing they are actually in love or not. Fall in love and receive betrayal became a trend and so I also love to go for arranged marriage. But I won't hesitate to go for love marriage if I find my soulmate earlier and it must be natural approach.
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Have you watched the hottest Korean drama today? The Queen of Tears...
It's a drama about marriage and divorce..with a twist.. this gives hope to broken marriage and to remarried haha..
Not yet. In recent time I haven't watched any dramas.
Do you suggest to see it?
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