Some thoughts in June, classes or wedding, future or freedom?

in Hive PH7 days ago

June classes or June bride😬😁, Need to choose which one, but why chose when you can have both?😁 Hehe.

Seriously I would say that for me, it's better to have classes back in June, same like how it used to be before COVID. The only problem is, it falls on rainy season. Still I think that summer should fall on school holidays. I remember before that during the month of May we celebrate the Flores De mayo. We would pluck flowers to be used in offering for the honour of Mama Mary. Those were school holidays. Until now they're still doing that celebration but because the school is still open and children are busy, they just pray for it silently. Aside from that we often plan our get together during summer. Family outings and so on. Who would like to go out if it's raining.

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About the divorce bill, I think there's advantages and disadvantages, but I think more on advantages. Those who want to walk away from their marriage, they can easily file for divorce. You don't need to be chained in a piece of paper if your no longer happy. Unlike if there's no divorce you can still file some legal action but considering the cost and how long it would take, some people just live with it even if they've been separated. It's hard to be separated when legally you are still tied to your other half and still legally responsible for it. You still bear his name and you cannot walk away with that easily. That's why some people choose to just live in together even though they already have children because of this problem.

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About being a June bride is something I always hear since I was a child. I don't know what's so special about June that a lot ladies like to do their wedding on this month. Before I was thinking maybe June is a magical month to get married. Or you would be successful and be bless if you choose this month to wed. For me the ideal wedding is not base on what month you choose, it's between two hearts that beat as one,😬. I don't know if it still exist.🥵

Kidding aside, the ideal wedding for me is if you are emotionally and financially stable. To tie the knot with the one person you love and wish to spend your life with. Either it's a church or civil wedding as long as both family's are present and happy is enough for me. Don't just marry coz of pressure from other people or because you have to. It's ideal to marry because you want to and happy to do it. Like they say, you have finally found someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Remember that it's not easy to part ways if you are already married and have kids that you need to consider before making a tough decision. Considering at this time that divorce has yet to be finalized.
How about you? Share your thoughts.
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Iba na talaga panahon ngayon, pati start ng school days hehe. And speaking of June, it's so wet up here. Walang patid na ulan tuwing hapon hehe.

About sa Divorce, agree din ako na mapasa yung bill, kasi whether we like it or not, meron at meron yung gustong kumawala sa marriage and it can be helpful lalo na sa mga nagsu-suffer.

Kaya nga sis, hirap din Pg palagi umuulan Pg may pasok na. Lagi din absent lalo na Pg malayo bahay mo😁.

Trending ang divorce sa pinas ah, hehe.. dto ko lang sa post nyo nalaman 😂outdated eh..
Yung June bride tlga eh, bat kaya sikat yan, tinatanong ko din dati ano meron sa June hah
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Kaya nga, parang ang saya Pg SA June ikinasal😁

 6 days ago  

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Same thoughts here, gusto ko sana ibalik sa June ang simula ng klase but then naisip ko rin na pasimula yan ng rainy season so lagi din walang pasok lalo pag lumakas masyado ang ulan.

Thank you sa entry mo at God bless you. 😊

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I can very much relate to unhappy marriage with kids and divorce decisions. Too often many get married for the wrong reasons like you mentioned. Rather than indulge more I leave more of my thoughts short, haha.

sometimes you would be torn in between, whether to leave or to stay because of the kids that you need to consider. Share some more thoughts. Hehehe😁😁

Yep yup......see my thoughts written, haha

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I think divorce should be an option. Here it is an expensive option. Usually one of the parties take on the financial burden of the other via either alimony and child support or both.

I remain silent on my experiences, haha. Funny thing is I started blogging two years ago to express those but never have. 🤣 Came close wrote an article than deleted it, it would have been my first too.

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I can talk about my laws with it which is different in all 50 states but I don't know how this law is with this bill in your country

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