Everything is just like a one-sided coin, the side it will show to me will be different from the side it will show to others because they are viewing it from a different perspective.
Our reputation at times decoy the true person under the mask, they believe you're okay just because of your reputation, and they tend not to render any help or stay by your side because they think you're okay with doing that yourself, and that's the side we are getting it wrong. We are all human and at a point, we might get weak.
Yeah, they see that the shoe looks good on you, not knowing the pain you're passing through on that shoe, they don't know if it hurt or not, instead, they keep viewing things in their perspective because of the reputation...
Well, they'll get to understand if they also work on the same shoe. Judging things because of reputation will induce so many wrongs.