I definitely feel what you're saying. This market cycle should be dubbed the "The Cycle of Confusion"—it's defied every prediction. I have to say setting sells at pre-determined prices has taken some of the anxiety out of the equation but not all. Even though the market volatility isn't nearly as severe as it once was the entire market often feels more speculative because it's less predictable. How October plays out will tell us a lot about the future of the market.
I think my big problem is I hold so few tokens that my sell points have to be unreasonably high for it to even make it worth it. Almost October... :)