I understand completely, and I'm also a man who likes to find peace, solace and solitude in my life. Sometimes I need other things though, (I can be a little complex) and on occasion it music like this. Heavy metal music is probably the genre I listen to mostly, but the message this band send, respect for military veterans primarily, and those things you mention means something to me.
I'm found at my piano playing classical music, in my truck and other places listening to country music, heavy metal, instrumental, world, classical and just about everything in between in equal measure. I like my diversity.
I'm glad you commented though, and that you're not closed to new and different things as many are. Under it and over it is a great track for sure. I like Got your six, Bad company, Wrong side of heaven and...well all their tracks really.