It’s for sure a tricky situation - we should compare ourselves to others in some ways so that we can grow and improve. At the same time we shouldn’t do it too much because then that creates the opposite challenges if confidence and then procrastination.
Hopefully you can figure out a balance that works for you!
I do agree with you, man! I feel that comparing doesn't really help us that much but it challenges us to do better. I hope I can find myself again.