It’s funny but sad because to many men in countries outside of the Philippines like America in the various farming parts, a woman who can help and do these things would be a prize that many would love to have. It’s a shame that there’s a negative image of it where you are but hopefully you can find the right one, there’s always the right one out there for somebody!
The pressures on the woman in these situations sounds miserable. There’s definitely a lot of pressure but a lot of it is unnecessary. What we can at least aspire to do is if we have a family of our own, we can refuse to participate in such foolish traditions. Motivating someone to be better is never a bad thing but shame and ridicule is quite unnecessary in this day and age in this regard.