A fairy has been summoned. :D
(*cracks fingers*)
Ok, let's go! xD
You speak as if you haven't witnessed miracles, or seen how your thoughts get mirrored back to you from 3D in real time. I'm sure you can recall some mind-blowing experiences if you try. Or seen 3D wobble with you in your internal wobble of belief/disbelief.
Sure there are plenty of self-help MLM schemes out there, I noticed this quite early on as my brain is wired to extract a distilled value of what has been delivered and if I see someone attempting to run verbal circles around me, without as much as giving me a single nugget of value, I click off and move along. I've said this early and often, and I'm going to say it again, if the only examples 'a guru/coach' is giving of their own success is what has contributed to their MLM scheme (subscribers, views, money directly from the scheme, book deals related to the same scheme etc, etc), and not, say, healing your own backbone from devastating injury, then I'm not likely to be interested in what they have to say.
Because the thing is, if you actually listen to what these 'gurus' have manifested for themselves you often realize that they are in fact fresh, green baby practitioners and you'd probably have more to teach them than vice versa.
And this is where I always bring up Joe Dispenza, because despite the self-help scene being flooded with baby practitioners who fancy themselves gurus, there ARE still some who have dug deeper, are in fact the real deal, and CAN provide actual value. So maybe it's not such a great idea to throw the baby out with the bathwater. And maybe it IS worth digging deeper yourself to find what actually works for you and what doesn't.
Joe Dispenza doesn't even say that this process is easy and all sunshine and rainbows. He does say that it takes work, just not Newtonian - go there, do this - kind of work, but mental work and that the change does feel uncomfortable, because of the exposure to the unknown, but if you persist in the uncomfortable then you get to a breakthrough and the 'new' becomes natural.
And it all boils down to what you believe/accept/assume to be 'real'/'the truth'.
And this is where we have to go down the rabbit hole of how instantaneously the reality actually shifts according to our beliefs, but as soon as you go - but muh evidence, where's muh evidence - you've dropped yourself back into the lack.. and that constant shifting, back and forth.. can be extremely exhausting and that's where sometimes we accept the undesired reality, just so that we stop wobbling back and forth. And that's how we concede.. but we don't have to.
But limits also existYes, and the most annoying part is - those limits are only of your own making. Sure they can be intricate and interwoven, sure they can be borrowed and inherited, sure they CAN seem unsurmountable. But your limits are your own and nobody else's. Nobody else has any business around your limits. Sure it will look like everyone tries to get you back into your box, but you don't have to accept their judgment that something is 'impossible'. But sometimes, if you're stubborn enough you just have to fight reality on some things. Or not. Or just sit in a cave until you've collapsed reality to where you don't have to fight the reality anymore, but it's just the natural state of being.. for everyone.
And sure, some of it might take 'more time' than other things. But that too is just related to assumptions/beliefs. And also, also, TIME is SOO overrated. We give it too much power when it actually is sooo much more malleable. I really think we need to start messing with the time more, to take it off of this ridiculous pedestal it has been put on.
And yes, sometimes.. ah, yes, I recall, sometimes you just feel like you're trapped in this muddy, mucky energy, where you wish you could believe in the things you want but it seems the more you try to move, the more you get dragged deeper into the swamp of despair. Let me recall what's the best way to get out of that.. .. well, yes, zero point, still. So you, stop trying to move and exhaust yourself (even just trying to change your beliefs counts as trying to move in this scenario), you remain still in your energy, accepting whatever is at the same time as detaching from what is, knowing that that's just an illusion. You accept but don't accept the NOW at the same time, but don't do anything about it just remain still. You'll recognize the zero point by how emotionally uninvested in anything you become. Yes, psychopathy can be a skill too.. :D CAUTION! - Zero point is a tool, and is not meant to be made into a home. That's how you become a voidwalker. :D And it's a lonely place, even if the loneliness is an emotion and you can't feel it, it's still there. Now to step outside of the zero point on the other side, you have to collect small trinkets of moments that 'spark joy'. You become a dedicated collector of these moments until you look at your collection and go like - huh, look at that.. I actually AM on the other side. ... is the best way I can put it.. from experience.
And this process is actually the same as it applies to 'believing something you didn't believe before', you just meticulously in a completely biased manner collect even the tiniest of shreds of evidence that supports the belief that you're trying to build until you have gathered SO much evidence that they are undeniable. "But Josie that's not very scientific!" Magic is magic because it doesn't have the limitations of science! - is what I say to that.
rationalizing staying “stuck” in cynicism rather than accepting/embracing/clarifying what I actually want, committing to, and following through on it… whether self-sabotaging hyperfocus or cleverly-justified procrastination.
I've also sometimes noticed for myself that it is easier to pretend to not know what I want than to admit to it and feel all the dread and fears of failing to achieve it/get there.
But "what you want" should really be paraphrased to 'how you want to feel' because achievements and possessions might give a glimpse of permission to feel the way you want to feel, but it's not a secure way to go about it. You start by building the feeling first. (the same way - collecting the tiniest moments of spacetime where you have felt the slightest glimmer of that feeling that you're reaching for, until you have enough of those to feel secure in that feeling), then the 3D 'explanation' of WHY you're feeling that way also comes around.. and keeps coming. And creates a perpetual feedback loop to the point where you just go - yeah, I'm just naturally that kind of person that just feels this way all the time.. this is just who I am.
And you already have areas in your life (everyone does) where someone else comes up to you and goes, wow how do you do this and that, I could never, and you just shrug and go - that's just who I am - but for that person that seems like an impossible feat.
I am aware that this is just me mostly repeating myself in not-so-unfamiliar words, but this is the best I have to offer at the moment. Hope at least some of it shines through.. you know.. in that way that it's supposed to.
~Josie~