I just have to say it.... Is the movie you were referring to the Yes Man?
Also, I'll have no way of knowing. I never had a pet of my own before but after reading your post, I think I might consider getting a small kitten. I'll probably call her Lyla.
Honestly, I could use that level of warmth, comfort, and healing in my life.
But if I may... What about your partner?
That's the movie. It has some funny parts.
People that don't have pets will rarely understand the connection and feelings I guess. But, once it happens, they get a pet, they come to the realisation that their life wasn't quite complete prior. Well, in most cases anyway I think.