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Me talking to my younger self..
(Me 2015)
Life will not always be the same. A time will come when you will face life in a completely different way, when the comfort and protection of your parents’ care will no longer shield you from responsibilities. You will have to take care of your own needs and make decisions on your own self. Have you heard the word adulthood before? If you haven’t, come sit with me. I need to talk to you about the reality of life and the things you will eventually face in the future.
Adulthood is that stage of life where you begin to take full responsibility for yourself. It is the time when you start providing for your own needs, setting your goals, and making choices that will shape your future. It is not as simple as it sounds because it comes with demands and expectations. Unlike childhood, where things are mostly done for you, adulthood requires you to plan, work hard, and sometimes face challenges alone. It is a stage where you realize that the freedom you have when you get to that stage of life also comes with responsibility, and every decision you make counts in shaping the kind of life you will live.
(Me 2015)
You see, my friend, right now your parents are the ones taking care of your needs. They provide everything you need to live comfortably. When you ask them for something, they do their best to give it to you because you are their responsibility for now. But a day will come when that responsibility will shift. There will come a time when they will depend on you. When you will have to be the one making sacrifices, working hard to support them and your siblings. Life has a way of turning the tables around and when that time comes, it will be your turn to give back.
You are the first child of your parents, and that position comes with a big role. Your family will look up to you someday. Your younger ones will depend on you for direction, support, and example.
Let me tell you something, you see, your dad is a civil servant, and according to the constitution, after thirty five years of service, retirement is certain. He is already halfway through his career, and you are still young. It is possible that he may retire before you enter the university, depending on the time and stage you are in school. If that happens, more responsibilities will fall on your shoulders. You might have to find ways to work and support yourself, and at the same time assist your family in one way or another. That is why I am asking you to take what I’m saying seriously.
Make good use of yourself now while you still have time, the energy, the privileges and opportunities. Don’t waste your youthful years doing things that add no value to your life. Be wise with your time and take whatever skill or handwork you are learning more seriously. I’m not saying you aren’t serious now, but you can do better. Put in more effort both in your studies and in your skill. After mastering the basics of your training, don’t stop there. Go for more advanced learning. The more you grow in knowledge and experience, the better prepared you will be for the future.
Remember that your younger siblings are watching you closely. They will learn not only from what you say but also from what you do. Your behavior, your attitude, and your discipline will become a silent lesson for them. Be the kind of person they can look up to with pride. Show them that hard work, patience, and self-control are better than shortcuts. Life will test you, but if you start preparing now, you will face the future with confidence.
So, my dear younger self, use this time wisely. Learn, grow, and build yourself. Adulthood will come sooner than you expect, and when it does, may you be ready to face it.
Thank you very much for reading.
Truly a nice one @joshel . Especially having it mind that your parents are putting in their best to provide for you while you are still young.
Thank you very much @sunshine29 !!!
I deeply appreciate you.
You are welcome 😇
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STOPNice one to younger self
Thank you very ma'am @amara24 ..
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You are welcome 🙂
Good to see you growing your stake Josh..
Nice letter to your younger self..
Thank you very much Sir...
I've come to understand that growing my stake and adding value to the platform should be a major purpose and so, I hope to keep doing that and to continue add more value to the platform...
Nice one