Phew 😢, it feels like ages has passed since I last talked about relationships and love, i almost turned into a relationship therapist and a love guru months ago hahah, but thanks to my funny friends who actually teased me for it, i decided to take an unplanned break, but I must truly confess, it felt really good talking about love and relationship back then, it was the best feeling ever as i was able to put both my real life knowledge and the ones i got from all my k-dramas i have been watching so far into good use…
Guess what friends, i am partially back again, which means i will be talking about relationships and love once again like i did in the past, the craziest thing about this particular post is that i never thought I’d be writing it today, but because of what happen between my two good friends(couples) today and i was forced to intervene before everything cooled down a bit, I made up my mind to write something relating to it before bed today, and here i am fulfilling the promise i made to myself earlier today…
When it comes to relationships and real love, there are many factors required to sustain a relationship for a very long time if not forever, even if it’s a rare case, i have seen childhood sweethearts get married when they grew up, so why can’t we also make things work that same way, it is going to be a very beautiful relationship, the bond, the love and the clarity is intact…
As a guy who is currently in a serious relationship, i know how hard and simple it is to maintain a healthy relationship with someone you love and trust, the most interesting fact about true love is that, you never get tired of it, which means you will crave for more, especially when you have a partner with a clear goal and future for herself, it makes the relationship more sweeter…
I have noticed something in relationships for years now, when i say relationships, I meant other relationships including mine, there are some things some ladies find annoying and irritating in a relationship, especially when it comes to their partner (we the guys), majority of all the relationships i know and have witnessed its break up, these 2 things i am about to talk about in the next paragraphs were the factors that crashed their ship…
I was able to bring this to light and to the general audience after witnessing many cases related to such, and to thanks to my keen observations and investigations, i came to realize how factual it is in the real world…
It’s high time i let the cat out of the bag, i don't want to keep y’all waiting any longer, i am open to corrections and additions friends, and i will like to hear from my audience regarding these two points of mine…
THEY ARE NOT A FAN OF THESE TWO THINGS…
CLINGINESS…
I have never seen a guy acting clingy when it comes to relationships, i have seen several girls acting clingy in a relationship in the past, and the funniest thing now is that this whole stuff has evolved, it seems the clingy act has now automatically shifted to my gender, i am saying this with experience, it is just as it is when a girl is always acting clingy in a relationship, such relationships starts to get very boring and frustrating to an extent, now imagine a guy doing all this lol, isn't it crazy…
In summary, even ladies don’t want a clingy boyfriend or partner, this is now like a automatic turn off in many relationships…
TOO MUCH COMPLAINING…
Oh my goodness 😂, when it comes to complaining, my gender can be very difficult at times, if there’s one thing i have come to learn since I entered into a relationship years ago, it is the fact that too much complaining makes a lady tired and lonely to an extent…
And some of my gender do not even know when to and when not to complain about some certain things, it is always complain today, tomorrow, and next tomorrow , gradually it starts developing into something bad and before you know it, such relationship crashes…
In summary, complaints shouldn’t be too much in relationships, there are many other ways to pass across a message without making it look malicious and inappropriate…
In conclusion, that is that about that, i am open to correction friends, let’s make this quite interactive. Alright, it’s time to sign off now, good night everyone…
NB: the above image was designed by me on canva…
THANKS FOR READING…
It's good to have you back to share your experience about your two friends and that you were able to help them sort out their issues. Some people in a relationship tend to be clingy to their partners without knowing that it might ruin that relationship.
Exactly my dear, sorry for the late reply, you have really highlighted it my dear, thanks for stopping by my dear
Seriously they don't like a person who is not caring and sharing. The need is for open and respectful communication between partners.
I cant agree less my man, thanks for stopping by
That's so nice of you to come up with this fragile and sensitive topic. Yes, some people get clingy! But if one knows where they are coming from and the root cause, that is actually attention-seeking. We can overcome this issue.