It is no lie that every day we wake up is a fresh start, a chance to begin again, do things right, and chase our wildest dreams. Still, there is something about a new year that feels like an official return to the drawing board where we carefully map out what the next couple of months should look like for us. Personally, I love the hopeful feeling that comes with a new year, the type that nudges us to set new goals and reminds us that life is not over until it truly is.
Last week, I wrote down three realistic goals I hope to achieve by the end of this year. But when I saw this prompt today, I realized there were a few important commitments I had not yet put into words.
One of them is to be a more present and reliable friend. I value friendships a lot and I am grateful to have a close knit circle of people I can proudly call my friends. These people have stood by me for years, they've accepted me as I am without trying to make me change my personality for anything in the world. Still, I struggle to be present for them in every area. I'm someone who tends to withdraw when life becomes overwhelming. I settle back into my thoughts and take long breaks from social media, creating a distance between my friends and I.
While my reasons for going off the radar may be valid, I have come to realize that it is unfair to those who care about me. Sometimes, my friends simply want a lighthearted conversation or a quick exchange over a chat, and my absence deprives us of those small but meaningful moments. This year, I want to show up more and make life-changing memories with them. I want to be present when they need support and also when they just want to talk and laugh via any messaging platform.
Another goal I have set for myself this year is to learn how to crochet. Last year moved so quickly that I abandoned this skill, even though I was determined to learn it. I got more focused in setting goals than following them through till the end. This year, I want things to be different. I strongly believe in the work of my hands and in my ability to take on challenges, even when they feel difficult or time consuming.
I want to create useful and beautiful clothing accessories with wools and prove to myself that I am capable of everything I think. As someone who spends a lot of time on digital screens, learning an offline, hands-on skill feels like a great decision to make right now. So, I believe crocheting will not only reduce my screen time but also bring calm, healing, and the lost spark of creativity I once had in my life.
I know these commitments will require effort, consistency, and patience with myself, but I am willing to embrace the process with the purest intentions. I hope to return to this post in a year with a smile on my face, proud that I stayed true to my words and grew alongside these goals.
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My dear learning a new skill isn't easy, but with determination, you will definitely achieve it. Crotcheting is a beautiful skill that requires patience and commitment. I hope you look back to this post in one year with gratitude and great achievements.
You are right, and that's why I'm willing to commit to it. Thank you for the word of encouragement. Wishing you a lovely year ahead.🥰
You have a positive mindset. It's good to acquire new skills. I wish you success
Thank you very much.