Thats actually a really cool way of doing it. I'm having issues in this department. I try to teach me daughter this but I'm getting other relatives buy her what ever she wants. If I say no she has a melt down and says Fine! NANNY OR AUNTY WILL BUY IT FOR ME
Well done on this one
Oh..it's a bad case...all the family should have the same position if you want to get results in anything, otherwise you'll lose your power over your girl:(
I had the same experience with food. I taught my boy that there were bad products we didn't eat, but my relatives fed him with them when I didn't see....we had many scandals, but now they start to follow my position, because Mom (and Dad) are leaders for the kid. They should be.