Yea discord is usually a waste of time for most people. It is very customizable and a cheap "tool" but even having a server where you want to keep it clean and safe is a lot of work because social engineering scams are so pervasive these days.
Even people that keep their servers clean still get hit by social engineering scams. And the unfortunate thing about these type of scams is not all people even realize it happened or is happening.
Sorry not to get dark.
I guess the short answer is, I am not trying to create FOMO by any means 😅