As I continue to reflect on this, @meno, it is nice to see your reference to the post of FriendlyMoose. You already have my reference to that post in a previous comment.
What impressions are made, if one were to read them both in a very short time frame, as I have? Two sides of a great divide? Across which even thinking about building a bridge is irrational? Just a friendly squabble amongst "family?" And, therefore, no big deal?
I could say I have no idea, but that would be false. I could toy with some verbal gymnastics, but I am no fan of playing games. Certainly not with something as serious as what the content of both posts is discussing.
It will be more than just curiosity for me to see what comes of your efforts referred to in this post.
Because that is happening is that I want to have these conversations. I find them very needed (again). I don't see bad actors, I see people thinking they are doing the best for the platform. We first have to agree on what is the desired outcome.