if she finds you weak in bed get some one else who will appreciate you
Or talk to your spouse to see what the cause may be. Most always physical dysfunctionality is caused by mental/emotional imbalances. If a man feels he cant support his family (lost his job) then he might feel his manhood was jeopardized, that he is "not a man anymore", and that may quickly lead to impotence.
yes @ nomad-magus your option is better because in any relationship communication is called for and its the reason why some relationships still stand and besides that if the second one doesnot appreciate will you still move to the third of course you will not have to spend time looking out for women only.
Thanks for that view