I have to tell you the truth, I started watching the vid of the 30 yr. old son and was so disgusted I could not finish. Your explanation of the collapse of the traditional role of men is much clearer now. And I agree. I've raised my 5 kids (three girls and 2 boys) and they all are very responsible proactive adults. I also had part in raising 4 foster sons. These boys really struggled to get a grip on reality and become responsible for their own lives. One did well, another is essentially a wild dog out on the streets, another at age 28 has finally grown up ...well, he is in the process, while the 4th, at age 24 is still in Never-Never land but attempting to get a life. I'll sound like an old geezer here but by 24 I was married, with our first child, working full time and going to school.
When I tell my adult foster sons about how it was for me they look like deer in the headlights. To them it is almost horrifying to consider such a thing.
Oh, and what is the Mgtow movement" ? The best I could come up with, considering the discussion, is Men going to Women movement!
Hey, sorry it took so long to get back with you on your question. It deserves a lot of care, as it is attacked because the system and gynocracy it pushes is against this. It is an acronym for Men Going Their Own Way. I am not one, but I incorporate many of the truths they speak of and admire many of the men as leaders who have come out of what is called the rage phase. Here is a link to a thread on their sub on Reddit. There can be a lot of toxicity on this sub by those who are in the rage phase, as well as by incels but this thread really covers a lot of the truths behind them. A worthy read, especially if you have a lot of time to read through the comments. It is the growing backlash at the war on "toxic" masculinity.
https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/8qhp0x/dear_women_who_are_visiting_rmgtow/?limit=500
Well, never heard of it but sounds reasonable. One principle I really like is this: If you attempt to create anything that goes against nature it is folly. Trying to make men into non-men is nuts. Good pun huh?